Our Family Revolution

Something has hit me.  Hard.  We have been fighting a cold/runny nose/cough for almost a month now.  All of us- even sweet baby girl.  I know this has been a bad cold season for everyone all over the country, but COME ON!? We should be better by now.  Our immune systems should be better than this.  We are young, fit, living in middle class America, and “healthy”.  So why are we getting so sick?

My mama bear instincts have kicked in full force.  I will do everything in my power right now to make my family and myself better.  After doing a lot of reading and thinking, I am seeing more and more how our diet and lifestyle are holding us back from optimal health.  The food we are eating has just been making us weaker.  And who knows what all the “junk” has done to our bodies long term.  My babies deserve the absolute BEST I can give them. They trust me to feed them what their bodies are designed to eat and thrive on.  I have been failing them.

And what about our lifestyle? So what if it is a little cold outside? Why have we been spending the majority of our day inside and sedentary? We are so blessed to live in the south and have mild winters, yet I don’t take advantage of them.  I’m too lazy to get dressed and get the kids and myself fresh air and sunshine. This is COMMON SENSE!!

We are radically changing our diet and lifestyle starting NOW.  We are switching to a real-food, grain free diet.  I spent the weekend making meal plans, researching, and most importantly throwing away all the JUNK! What’s funny is I don’t even buy “junk food” except for a box of cookies or graham crackers.  But, there were things hidden: leftover Christmas candy, syrup, frozen waffles, “fruit” chewies, salad dressing, cake mix.  Anything with sugar, flour, or weird science ingredients are OUT.  Yes, it’s radical. But if we keep letting things slide, then I blink and realize all Jonah has consumed in a day is a peanut butter waffle, chicken nuggets, a peanut butter sandwich, some applesauce, a banana, and two cups of milk.  Ack! No wonder this child is still sick.

We will be greatly increasing our fresh fruits and veggies.  We will be cooking A LOT.  We will be trying new foods. We will also be playing outside a lot more, increasing our Vitamin D intake, and getting some much needed exercise.

We will be doing this as a family.  I hope to learn a lot as we go.

My prayer is that this radical change will radically improve our health.  I’m tired of coughing and having a runny nose EVERYDAY.  I’m tired of being tired.  We should be living better and in the most healthy way possible.  We owe it to ourselves and to the God who created us.  If you are interested in these ideas, google any of the following: primal diet, paleo diet, real food.

Bahamas Vacation, Part 1

I can’t believe I get to write this post.  We actually took a vacation to the Bahamas!  All of us.  It was an amazing trip and a destination that has always been at the top of my list. The fact that we actually talked about then planned then WENT to this place amazes me and makes me really proud.  Who says you can’t travel with young kids and have an amazing time?! So, here is part one of our fabulous and much-needed vacation.

We flew to Nassau on January 10: me, Josh, the two kiddos, and Josh’s mom.  We like to travel but we aren’t crazy, so we asked “SuSu” to come along for an extra set of hands.  Spoiler alert: we couldn’t have done this trip without her! (Thanks again, SuSu for all your help!)

walk to the bus stop

wow, people LIVE here!!

We stayed in a townhouse that we rented through homeaway.com.  It was a great find for a great price and just a few minutes walk to the nearest bus stop.  The house had two bedrooms, a full kitchen, and living room.  It was the perfect “home away from home” for our bunch.  On Friday, our first full day, we headed out bright and early to the nearby Sheraton resort.  We paid for a day pass which included access to their beach, pools, and a room to use for the day.  There was a little, private beach right by our town home, but it would have been too crazy to go back and forth with the kids all day.  This way, we could stay put and enjoy a day at the beach.

Sheraton Resort

The Sheraton was beautiful and the beach was stunning, but the weather was not very friendly.  It was super windy and almost cold! We kept Penny in the room most of the day, but Jonah enjoyed some sand and pool time with daddy.  I was definitely discouraged this day.  This was not the weather I had hoped for.  Luckily, by the afternoon, the sun came back out and the day improved.  Jonah ate a popsicle for lunch.  We lazed around and rested.  No place I would rather be!

ready for the beach

pretty girl relaxing

Jonah’s “lunch”

swimming with daddy

When we were ready to head back to our townhouse, we accidentally boarded a bus heading East.  Believe me, when you are tired with two very unhappy kids, this is the last thing you want to happen.  We ended up all the way downtown, surrounded by the crazy cruise ship people, and kicking ourselves for our mistake.  Josh helped make the best of it and insisted we stay and eat downtown and just take a taxi back home later.  Little did we know this would be what all our dinners looked like on the trip: Penny asleep, Jo playing on the iphone to keep him from whining, mommy and SuSu exhausted.

a typical dinner for us

Saturday started out to be a much better day.  The weather was gorgeous, and I was getting to check something off of my “life list”.  Today was DOLPHIN DAY!!

We boarded a boat at 8:30am headed to Blue Lagoon Island, a private island that is home to a dolphin and sea lion habitat. That morning there was a small group with us, which made us feel like we had the island all to ourselves.  I signed up for a “dolphin encounter” where you get to play and interact with a dolphin in a small group setting.  It has always been a dream of mine to pet a dolphin or whale.  But I actually got to dance with, hug, and feed the dolphin.  It was thrilling!! Jonah had the option to come with me, but opted out at the last minute.  He preferred to watch from afar, but he was so close and in his mini-wet suit that I think he felt like he did it all too!

on our way! (poor Penny)

yes, the water is that blue!

meeting our dolphin

(Ok, I hope you can find Jo in the above pic.  I think I’m buying him a wet suit.  IT IS SO CUTE!!)

dolphin kiss

dolphin hug

he felt so cool!

dolphin dance

dolphin feeding

After the dolphin experience, we enjoyed the rest of the morning/early afternoon on the island’s beach.  Penny had her first sand experience.  Jonah enjoyed playing in the calm water, even though it was really cold! The day was so beautiful and definitely one of the highlights from our trip.

our napping girl

she loved the sand

he loved finding rocks

look at daddy!

my handsome, but very tired boy

And then that evening, I got sick.  Ugh.  Like feeling yucky, have the chills, want to sleep kind of sick.  I toughed it out so Josh and I could have a dinner date, but I definitely wasn’t up for much.  At this point, I was hoping the rest of my trip wouldn’t be ruined.  To be continued…

 

Sheraton photo from here.

Favorite Things

Here are some things I’m loving these days. They are the little extras that make me happy.

My new calendar.  As much as I use my ical, I definitely like the feeling of writing things down and seeing it all in hand.  This one is extra cute.  (From Target on clearance.)

Amazon Prime membership. We are those crazy people that order everything from Amazon (diapers, toilet paper, dish soap, etc.) When I need something, I always check Amazon before heading to the store.  I think we ordered 50% of our Christmas gifts from here too.  It makes a mommy’s life SO much easier.  Warning: it can be very dangerous to your bank account if you get a little click-happy.

      

Cuisinart coffee maker and Capresso burr grinder.  We finally got around to upgrading our coffee accessories, and I am loving the change.  Grinding beans makes a noticeable difference in how my coffee tastes, and the new coffee maker does its job well.  Straightforward coffee that I get to add all my lovely creams to.  Heaven for a mommy every morning.

What are your favorite things these days?

Happy New Year

Ah, the life of a mommy.  I spent New Year’s Eve home with the baby, cleaning house, and watching the Gossip Girl series finale.  Bliss.  It was just one of those years where I wanted to rest and relax and check some things off of my 2012 list (Gossip Girl finale being at the top of said list, of course).

As 2013 begins, I thought I would start a new list.  Here are my goals/resolutions for the year, two for our family and two just for me.

1. Have more adventures.

I want our little family of four to DO more together.  This past year was a lot of work and baby-having and not much play. I’m hoping this year we will be able to take some trips (big and small), have more weekend fun, and try some new things together.

2. Intentionally save for a house.

We have been renting for several years now, and we honestly love it.  However, two kids means we are really starting to need more space.  This year, I want us to put money aside each month and start working on a down payment for a house. It’s nice to think about settling somewhere more permanent, but we definitely want to take this year to think more about it before we make any decisions.

3. Build relationships.

This one is for me.  I want to work on my relationships with friends, family, and neighbors and make deeper connections.  I’ve been so focused on my babies the past couple of years that I’ve really forgotten the other people in my life.  I’m hoping that this year I can take more time for others.

4. Improve my photography.

I received a new, fancy lens Christmas of 2011 and only touched it three times.  Out of fear.  I want to take better pictures this year and learn more about using my camera and that poor lens.

I hope you all have a wonderful start to this new year!

Christmas 2012

We had a very eventful holiday this year.  Lots of family and food and festivities. I’m still trying to process it all.  We had such a great week, but I really feel like I didn’t capture it well.  I guess with two kids running around, it is much harder to get decent pictures let alone cute ones.  Sometimes I wish I could hire a photographer to follow us around.  But that’s not real life.  So, New Year’s resolution: take better pictures.

Our Christmas was divided into two days.  Christmas day with my family.  The day after Christmas was spent with Josh’s family.  I’m so glad we were able to dedicate full days to each family and not worry about driving around and being stressed.  Jonah and Penelope were spoiled rotten by their grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins.  They were smothered with attention and perfect gifts.  Isn’t it crazy how happy you get to see your children happy?!

Christmas morning at our house was quick but sweet.  We don’t like to overload on gifts since the kids get so much from the rest of the family, so they each got a “big” gift and then a few smaller things.  I like to have everything set up and really try to make the morning feel special.  Jonah doesn’t quite grasp Santa Claus yet, and we don’t really like to push it.  Penny was cute and happy as always.

We spent the rest of the morning at my parent’s house, where the kids opened presents with their cousins.  My parents bought Jonah an awesome play house for the backyard.  He was so excited.  It will be much loved and used by both kiddos.  I can’t wait to see them playing house together.

The rest of the day was spent with our GIANT family on my mom’s side.  There were 40+ people.  It is always crazy and wonderful.

The next day we woke up early and made the one hour drive to be with Josh’s sweet family.  I really lucked out with my in-laws.  They made the day so special for the kids and cooked a fantastic meal for us.  Jonah’s PaPa built him a custom train table! He was so excited when he realized he got to take it home and could play with it everyday.

The best gift this year: having my sweet family to share Christmas with.  I love my babies and their daddy.

And this year brought our sweet Penelope.  She is such a joy EVERY.DAY. I’ve never met a happier baby.

We are so blessed to have our two, beautiful children in our arms. It breaks my heart thinking of those sweet families that didn’t get that gift this year. No matter what happens we always have hope thanks to a little baby in a manger.  Wishing you a late Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year!