One thing I am good at: getting my kids on a routine. I don’t think I could bear getting out of bed if I didn’t have an expectation of how my day with two littles would go. Jonah has had a solid routine for almost two years now, and although it has changed from stage to stage, he knows and expects it. Let’s just say, you don’t want to be around if he misses a nap. Penelope already seems like a much more laid-back kid, but even she gets fussy and overtired when our routine is off for the day.
I’m not a drill sergeant. I will be flexible one day a week. Sometimes.
It is just really important to keeping my kids and myself happy when we have a flow to our day. So, here’s where we get to my problem. I can’t seem to get MYSELF on any sort of routine, and it’s driving me crazy! The house is never cleaned in any order. The grocery shopping/cooking is random, even when I try to meal plan. Projects around the house don’t seem to ever get finished. My hobbies (aka blogging and reading blogs) are inconsistent (ahem, Ipostonceamonth, ahem). What is WRONG with me?!?! Why is it so easy for me to manage the littles but not myself?
I’m declaring the rest of this month “Simplify and Organize My Life” month. I want to FINALLY figure out a cleaning/cooking/shopping/planning/project-doing routine for me. One that works and that is simple enough to actually stick to. I am a stay-at-home mom for goodness sakes. The major blessing of that: I HAVE TIME! I need to use my time more wisely and get myself together. If it’s on the blog, then it has to happen. Right?
I would love any tips or tricks you may have on keeping yourself in a simple, weekly routine. How do you find the time to get all the chores and personal stuff done without feeling bogged down and crazy? I’m looking forward to posting what I decide to do soon. First on my list: carve out weekly blogging time. No, seriously. I miss this and you all!
we’ve been doing a lot of playing outside,
a lot of learning new things,
a lot of getting some sun,
a lot of being handsome,
a lot of being potty-trained too (!),
a lot of chatting with friends,
and a lot of having adorable feet.
Love these days.
It seems like moving takes twice as long when you have two littles to take care of amidst the chaos. We’ve been “moved in” since Feb 2nd, yet I still have stuff everywhere. Sheesh!
Boxes are still waiting to be unpacked, but there has definitely been a big improvement in the stuff area. I have taken a carload to Goodwill, and I am working on another one. We have filled up our big trashcan several times. I have stuck to my promise that nothing comes into the house unless it has a purpose and a place. That doesn’t mean we still don’t have a ton of “stuff”, but I’m hoping it is far less than where we started on moving day.
We absolutely LOVE this house (ok, my love does not refer to the exterior paint colors but definitely everything else)! I know some people still think it is weird that we choose to rent instead of buy, but I love the flexibility we have AND that we have a home we can love. The space in this house is incredible compared to our last one. And the backyard…it is my favorite part of this house. There is a door off the dining room/playroom that opens right to the deck. Jonah can run in and out as he pleases. I can be playing with Penny inside or getting dinner ready while Jo plays in my view right out back. It is such a blessing.
I’m trying to focus on getting one room done at a time, but I have so many ideas and just want it all done at once. It is overwhelming at times, but as of now we are living and playing and eating and sleeping. Here is where we are at the moment:
- Lucky Penelope is the only one with a “finished” room. She has all her furniture in place and art on the walls.
- Jonah’s room is basically set up, but we want to add some more big boy furniture and fun art.
- Our room is liveable, but I need something on the walls. I haven’t quite decided what I want to do in there.
- The living room is in desperate need of furniture! We are couch hunting now and hope to make a decision soon. We purchased a new tv stand in February, so we are excited to add to that.
- The kitchen is functional but needs art and some more organization.
- The playroom is finally coming along after a couple weeks of chaos and toys everywhere. We have a rug, some toy storage, and a fun wall treatment in there already. I need to work on adding an art area and more storage. I’m hoping this room will be the next one “finished”.
So, we are getting there. As hard as it is to sit in unfinished spaces, I have to keep reminding myself that making a house “home” takes time. I like to live in the space and see what works best. Of course we can keep changing things as we go, but for the sake of our bank account, I like to try to make long-term decisions. I’ll post pictures as rooms get more finished because right now, I promise, there isn’t much to see.
ps: Penny turned 7 months old last week. I think I still may be in denial. Did I mention she can sit up alone and she has started eating foods?! Where did the time go…
Well, we did it. We moved in a weekend after signing our lease just two days prior! It was fast, which is definitely not our usual style. Now that I am on the other side of the move, I’m grateful we did it all so quickly. I didn’t have to stress about packing or getting the kids adjusted. It’s done, and everyone is happy.
One thing I must say I don’t like about this situation is the UNpacking. Things got thrown in bags and boxes and dumped into the garage. I’m glad I don’t have to look at it every day, but I’m going to have to look THROUGH all of it. One thing at a time. It is incredibly overwhelming, but it must be done.
It’s amazing how our tiny, 1100 square feet held so much STUFF. How did all of that junk fit? We were definitely not using it all. What’s funny is most people tease me about giving away all our stuff all the time. In reality, we have 5x the amount of stuff I thought we did. I just wasn’t seeing it all in a huge pile at once. What if we were living in a house twice the size? Would we have twice as much stuff? Do we fill the space we are in no matter what?
For this house, my goal is to have empty shelves. I want to be able to breathe. Nothing is coming through that garage door unless it has a purpose and a place. That’s my rule for our new house. I may also add the rule “if something comes in, something else must go out” for any new purchases we make. I wonder if that could work. What do you think?
ps- I love this print. I couldn’t even imagine doing this with our stuff right now. Maybe if we didn’t have kids. Found here.
Well, about two weeks ago we finally decided we should move to a bigger house. The 1100 sq ft was starting to feel REALLY tight. Jonah was running out of room to play, and Penny is going to be mobile soon. We are just really outgrowing this space.
So, we thought we would start looking for a new rental (yes, we are still renting!), and I started checking Craigslist every couple of days to see what was out there with no intention of making any decisions anytime soon.
Then we looked at a few places. Just to see what they were like.
Then we found THE place.
With the rental market as it is in Baton Rouge, you really can’t pass up a nice place at your price point when you see it. We said yes, and they said yes, and we signed the marriage license lease. It was beautiful and FAST! I have exactly 1.3 days to pack and get settled in the new house. Yeah, that’s the ridiculous-I’m-freaking-out part.
We will have a few days after that to move smaller items, but we want to start sleeping at the new house Saturday night! Eeeek! I’m excited and overwhelmed but really excited. Can’t wait to show you pics next week!
ps- I brought both of my babies home to our current house. I’m going to really miss this place.
pps- If you are looking for a great little starter home in the Baton Rouge area, email me!